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EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE

 

DEFINITION OF EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE:

EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE is the ability to create a successful, satisfying life through the appropriate management of our emotions and their expression. It is the ability to be able to motivate oneself and persist in the face of frustrations; to rein in emotional impulses and delay gratification when necessary; to empathize with others and to read another's innermost feelings; to hope and to laugh; to manage one's moods; and to handle relationships smoothly.

 


WHAT IS INTELLIGENCE?

5 MAIN CLUSTERS

Emotional Awareness
• Impulse and Anger Control
• Empathy
• Social Skills
• Cognition (reality testing, flexibility and problem-solving)
• Self-motivation




3 EMOTIONAL STYLES

Engulfed
• Indifferent
• Self-awareness


The core of Emotional Intelligence is developing self-awareness of, and the management of, one's emotions, decisions and actions.


WHERE TO LEARN E.I.
Home/Parenting
• Religious Center
• School
• Model in Community
• Psychotherapy


EMOTIONAL RELEARNING

Learn social cues to prevent "jump to judgment"
• Learn to feel the impulse
• Learn to find internal boundaries
• Positively reinforce delayed gratification
• Give yourself permission to express healthy impulses


E.I. IN THE WORKPLACE

Interpersonal intelligence is key
• Self-management of one's emotions
• The art of managing other people's emotions
• Integrity


THE 4 COMPONENTS OF INTERPERSONAL INTELLIGENCE
Organizing Groups
• Negotiating Solutions
• Personal Connection
• Social Analysis


WHAT DOES EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE MEAN TO YOUR BUSINESS?