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EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE
DEFINITION
OF EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE:
EMOTIONAL
INTELLIGENCE is the ability to create a successful, satisfying
life through the appropriate management of our emotions
and their expression. It is the ability to be able to
motivate oneself and persist in the face of frustrations;
to rein in emotional impulses and delay gratification
when necessary; to empathize with others and to read another's
innermost feelings; to hope and to laugh; to manage one's
moods; and to handle relationships smoothly.
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WHAT
IS INTELLIGENCE?
5
MAIN CLUSTERS
Emotional
Awareness
Impulse and Anger Control
Empathy
Social Skills
Cognition (reality testing, flexibility and problem-solving)
Self-motivation
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EMOTIONAL STYLES
Engulfed
Indifferent
Self-awareness
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The
core of Emotional Intelligence is developing self-awareness
of, and the management of, one's emotions, decisions and
actions.
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WHERE
TO LEARN E.I.
Home/Parenting
Religious Center
School
Model in Community
Psychotherapy
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EMOTIONAL
RELEARNING
Learn
social cues to prevent "jump to judgment"
Learn to feel the impulse
Learn to find internal boundaries
Positively reinforce delayed gratification
Give yourself permission to express healthy impulses
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E.I.
IN THE WORKPLACE
Interpersonal
intelligence is key
Self-management of one's emotions
The art of managing other people's emotions
Integrity
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THE
4 COMPONENTS OF INTERPERSONAL INTELLIGENCE
Organizing
Groups
Negotiating Solutions
Personal Connection
Social Analysis
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WHAT
DOES EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE MEAN
TO YOUR
BUSINESS?
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